What if finding your soulmate required the same clarity you'd bring to any other important decision?
We make lists before we go to the grocery store. We write business plans, set budgets, define goals. We would never walk onto a car lot and say surprise me.
But when it comes to the most important relationship of our lives, we trust luck.
No wonder fifty percent of marriages end in divorce.
THE STORY
After ten years of being single, I decided to approach love the way I’d approach anything else that mattered — with clarity and intention. I made a list. Not a fantasy list. A compatibility list, built from genuine self-knowledge and a clear understanding of what I was actually looking for.
Two days after I finished it, Match.com matched me with Pat.
That was more than ten years ago. It keeps getting better.
ABOUT THE BOOK
The right partner doesn’t require constant compromise.
The right partner creates harmony.
The List Method walks you through the process of knowing yourself clearly enough to recognise the person who truly fits — and stop settling for everyone who almost does.
“Chemistry can start a relationship. Clarity finds your soulmate.”
Explore:
- The Memoir (Link to MARNI page)
- The Framework (Link to Iceberg Principles page)
- The Method (Link to List Method page)
- The Art (Link to Art page)